Everyone wants to be independent and no one wants to have to rely on others to bale them out in a pinch. However, sometimes it’s necessary to seek help. Seeking help once in a while is not an issue but some people find themselves in a situation where they feel that they are unable to handle things on their own. Being Self Reliant can be difficult when the weight of the world is on your shoulders.

If you want to be less reliant on others, there are some things you can do to become more self-efficient. First of all, think about your situation, what caused it and what has happened to make you afraid of self-reliance. Next, look into some counseling, books, courses or other resources that are meant to help people have more self-confidence. Finally, start working on the things you often need help with and start practicing doing them yourself. If money is the issue and you find yourself relying on others for loans, perhaps try getting a second part-time job or moonlighting as a gig worker.

There are ways to become more independent and the reward is the feeling you get when you are able to conquer almost anything without any help.